“I can’t eat anymore”
“Noooo, I don’t want to eatttt”
Let’s be honest…
Getting your child to eat the food they’re served is not the easiest task in the world.
Children are often quite fussy when it comes to eating and parents constantly find it difficult to make healthy food seem enticing to them.
So, what do we tend to do?
Hand them a smartphone to fidget with while eating!
Guilty as charged? 🙂
While children are busy watching something or playing on an app, they’re distracted enough to quite literally, gobble up their food.
And not just that…
Most of us adults love having some “quiet freedom” from our children’s constant noisiness at the table, be it at home or in a restaurant.
So shoving a screen in front of them just makes our task a whole lot easier, right?
Well, in the long run, this idea couldn’t be more wrong.
We do this without realizing the long-term impact that this short-sighted, recurring decision has on our children.
But fear not!
We’ll explain why this is bad for your child and we’ll also give you awesome alternatives that will make your child enjoy eating without the use of mobile phones or TV!
Let’s head right in!
Why using mobile phones while eating is the worst thing for your child
1. Leads to severe addiction
Here’s a startling fact — research shows that 90% of children interact with smartphones even before they turn 2.
And this is scary because children at this age (and the early years in general) should be engaged creatively to receive maximum brain development.
Handing over a screen, even if it’s just during mealtime, can be a huge mistake.
Because what starts off as showing the child YouTube rhymes or Peppa Pig while eating, will slowly turn into a habit that the child finds hard to break away from.
And once this habit forms, the child won’t even want to try to escape from it.
This behaviour of not being able to disconnect from their smartphone may also creep into other aspects of their lives and can lead to severe addiction.
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2. Eating too much or too less
Children learn to eat in accordance with these external distracting cues.
They tend to eat a lot more slowly, lazily, and in an uninterested manner than if they focused on the food.
Increased focus on eating and the dining table environment will lead to your child relishing the food they’re eating as well as eating exactly as much as they need and not any more or less.
So, if under-eating or overeating is a problem your child has, it may come down to this root cause.
Eating distractedly can cause them to overeat and eating extremely slowly because of the distraction can make them under-eat.
3. Not chewing properly
Eating distractedly can also result in your child not chewing properly. Swallowing pieces of food that haven’t been chewed up properly, can be a choking hazard and can also lead to indigestion and even an upset stomach.
4. Lack of interaction with family members
Another important reason to keep the screens at bay while at the table is mere interaction.
How much time do you spend in a day, seated with your family while really interacting with them? Think about it.
In most modern day families, the answer would be ‘not much’.
Making mealtime a collective activity that your family is engaged in teaches your child the importance of keeping in touch with family and can give you details about your children’s lives and interests as they’re growing up.
This directly helps in strengthening the bond you have with them.
Looking at it from another perspective, if you were to hand your child a screen during meal time, the kid learns that interacting while being seated right beside your family members for an extended period of time is unimportant.
This may lead the child to believe that the family ‘doesn’t talk much’ and this sort of behaviour can be seen constantly repeating itself on family trips and events.
The child can tend to use a smartphone to avoid interaction with family members and can develop an idea that they simply do not get along with their family.
So what now?
What can you do to get your child to eat screen-free?
The first tips we’ll look at will be about how to make food seem exciting to children so as to make the very process of eating food fun for them. They should enjoy their food and should voluntarily want to eat it.
1) Make the meal interesting
a) Add variety in the form of a balanced diet
Kids are generally cranky and fussy about food when they’re served just one thing and are expected to finish it.
In order to incorporate a balanced diet routine for them, give them a variety of foods in every meal. This isn’t as hard as it sounds.
For example, for breakfast, include cut-up fruits in a bowl and maybe some flavoured yoghurt along with cereal and milk.
Whole grain rice, pasta, bread and just rotis with a vegetable, and a protein source (meat, paneer, beans, etc.) are good options for lunch and dinner!
b) Get creative
Be creative while explaining to them why a certain food is good, and be creative while making food, too.
Tell your child about their role models eating the food your child dislikes, and how it helps them be who they are and become strong (does Popeye come to mind?).
Make food look pleasing to them by putting a smiley face on that pancake or by cutting french toast into different shapes. You can make mini sandwich bites shaped with cookie cutters for snack time!
Talk to them about how cauliflower and broccoli are like little trees and they’re giants when compared to the small vegetable. Just let your creativity match theirs and flow freely!
I’m sure at this point you’re wondering what ways there are to keep your child entertained in a way that is as engaging as that ever exciting smartphone or TV program.
Preparing food that the child enjoys isn’t all that it takes for the child (and you, too) to have fun while at the table.
c) Don’t dictate their food habits
The more you command your kids to ‘finish their food’ or ‘eat the vegetables’ the less likely they are to do so. Try and suggest a dip with vegetables or a different sauce if they aren’t eating them. Or just ask them how they’ll like it the next time.
d) Get them involved in the preparation of food
Involve your child in picking out vegetables and ingredients, and even in the cooking process.
If your child isn’t old enough to cut vegetables and make a salad, you could have a ‘make your own salad’ station with cut-up vegetables that they can choose from and dress!
You can do the same thing with a ‘make your own sandwich’ station as well. Baking with your child is a good idea, too.
Ask your child to join you in the kitchen and give suggestions regarding what they like and what they don’t. They will always eat anything they’ve helped you create.
e) Add a reward mechanism
Every time your child eats well without using mobile phones or TV, reward them with something meaningful. Children connect really well with nature. Take them out to the beach or for a nature walk!
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2) Make mealtime memorable
a) Engage in stories
Remember how when we were kids, our parents or grandparents used to feed us? They would take us to the balcony and narrate spontaneous stories of the crow, the cat or even the jackal! They would turn ladies fingers into warriors, curd rice into snow and rotis into planets!
They made mealtime interesting – and it was always something we looked forward to.
Wouldn’t you agree?
So how about doing the same for your child? Tell them exciting stories, take them back in time, and make them use their creative juices to add to the storytelling too!
b) Talk to your child during mealtime
Make mealtime interesting through conversations! Talk to your child about their daily activities (begin by asking them about the best part of their day as well as the worst), any new interests they may have, and details about their academics as well as their friends.
Tell them about your life and the lives of family members and ask for their opinions on any news or any decisions you may have to make and encourage them to express how they’re feeling that particular day. This will make them look forward to spending time together as a family during mealtime!
You could also engage them in an imaginative way, by asking them about their dream place to travel to and why, and about their current favourite story or toy and why it’s their favourite.
Talk to them about general moral issues too, like, if they think honesty is important, how they feel about a social issue, what they wish they could change about the world, etc.
c) Avoid stressful topics at meal times
Sometimes, parents discuss finances or plan the child’s school schedule during meal times as spending time together is a rarity.
Having said that, avoid stressful or serious discussions during meal times. It kills a child’s appetite. Try talking about happy things and see them wipe the plates clean.
d) Be a role-model
Eat the same healthy food your child is eating – and without the use of smartphones!
If you’re going to be restricting your child from using phones or watching TV or playing a video game while eating, the child is naturally going to create a fuss over it.
But when you model the same behaviour and make mealtime fun for the child, it will work wonders!
Conclusion: Screen-free mealtime = healthy eating
In conclusion, it’s not that difficult to get your child to eat without mobile phones and TV.
It may take some effort to not get tempted by the easy way out (screens), but with some practise it’ll be possible – and trust me – it’ll be well worth the effort! 🙂
Remember to practise what you preach and keep your phones away during mealtime, too, regardless of how important sending that email or attending that call is.
Connecting with your family does and should hold a lot more importance than that and while we can lose sight of that sometimes, we need to give ourselves a reality check by forcing ourselves to give family interaction the first priority 9 times out of 10.
Do try these out and share with us which worked best for you. If you’ve any other methods that help keep your child off screens, do share them with us in the comments below!
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